Here is a story of a cyber bully. Lets analyse it...
Hi I'm Alfie, and I am a cyber bully. At home things are hard. My mum and dad are constantly screaming and fighting with each other. Sometimes they take it out on me. I cry myself to sleep at night and that is why I decided to cyber bully. To be honest I am shy. I would never have the courage to do it in person so the internet is the safest place to do it. I like to see others to be in pain like I am constantly. I know this is wrong. I started off when I was playing call of duty on my xbox that's where I let out all of my anger. Then someone I was playing against annoyed me. I started threatening them and calling them names. I thought they deserved to suffer. From there it escalated. Every night I would abuse them through my xbox, taking my anger out on them. Then my parents found out. At first they were angry but when they asked why I did it I told them about how unhappy I was. They were so upset that I hadn't told them and the arguing started to stop. They helped me apologise even though I know that will never be enough. Now I am happier and I know that I can speak to my parents whenever I am sad. So my message is speak to someone. There is always a reason behind why you are feeling the need to cyber bully and people can help you with that. Never keep your feelings locked away.
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1) The spark of the problem
Hi I'm Alfie, and I am a cyber bully. At home things are hard. My mum and dad are constantly screaming and fighting with each other. Sometimes they take it out on me. I cry myself to sleep at night and that is why I decided to cyber bully. To be honest I am shy. I would never have the courage to do it in person so the internet is the safest place to do it.
2) How it affected the victim
In this case we don't find out how it affected the victim but here is a real life story about how someone was affected by cyber bullying...
3)How it was resolved
Then my parents found out. At first they were angry but when they asked why I did it I told them about how unhappy I was. They were so upset that I hadn't told them and the arguing started to stop. They helped me apologise even though I know that will never be enough. Now I am happier and I know that I can speak to my parents whenever I am sad. So my message is speak to someone. There is always a reason behind why you are feeling the need to cyber bully and people can help you with that. Never keep your feelings locked away.
In this story you can see that the bully resolved his problem by speaking out. This applies to not only the bully but the victim. If you just reach out to people and don't keep it locked away people can help you resolve your issue. This case just proves that not only can the victim have a happy ending but the bully can too. There is always a reason behind why someone cyber bullies.